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What did you learn to do as a child and adolescent to manage your feelings? Did you learn to numb out, taking your focus out of your body and into your head, thinking rather than feeling? Did you learn to use food, alcohol or drugs to numb out? Did you learn to numb out in front of the TV or computer? Did you learn to leave your body or to dissociate in other ways? Did you learn to live in fantasy or daydreams to not be present in your body? Did you learn to be a perfectionist, an overachiever, always being busy ? doing rather than feeling? Did you learn to get angry rather than feel the pain of the loneliness nike presto schwarz schweiz , heartache and helplessness? Did you learn to focus on what was going on with others rather than on your own feelings? Did you learn to absorb others' feelings and be there to help them as a way to avoid your own pain? Did you learn positive addictions, such as reading or sports, to avoid your feelings?
Those of us who did not receive the love we needed had to find various ways of managing the pain. This was a necessary part of our survival.
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As adults, many of our emotions come from our thoughts. If you think a thought such as "I am not good enough nike air presto schweiz , " you will feel anxious or depressed. These painful feelings are your inner guidance system telling you that the thought is a lie. If you then do something to avoid feeling the anxiety or depression, you are not getting the very important information that your feelings are giving you, and you are abandoning yourself. This self- abandonment ? avoiding your feelings and the information that your painful feelings are giving you ? leads to addictive behavior.
As a child, others may have been causing your painful feelings. As an adult, you are generally the cause of your pain ? by judging yourself, neglecting your feelings air presto schweiz , and making others responsible for your pain and joy. As an adult, it is your own self-abandonment that is often the cause of your pain.
As an adult, you CAN learn to manage your painful feelings by opening to learning about the information that your feelings are giving you, and by learning to access your inner higher wisdom to bring in the truth and love to yourself. You will know that you are thinking and behaving in ways that support your highest good when you feel inner peace and joy.
The information your emotions are always giving you is vital for your health and wellbeing. Why not start today to attend to your emotions rather than avoid them?
So many parents of young children joke about "the rebellious years" in a teenager's life, saying they're getting ready for the talking back or the "regular" teenage problems. They sometimes reminisce about their own teen years, making comments like nike presto schweiz , "I know what I was doing or thinking at that age and it wasn't good!"
For many parents of teenagers, however, rebellion is a regular occurrence in their lives and it affects the entire family dynamic. This vicious circle often begins with the teen acting out and the parents reacting, which usually prompts the teen to react even more. Pretty soon the situation has escalated and even if the younger siblings aren't directly involved, they witness the scenes and feel the tension in the home.
Sometimes the rebellion is simply the teen trying to discover himherself. They might blame their parents for being too strict and might start dressing differently just to get a reaction for not fitting into the family "mold." Or maybe their grades might slip because they're tired of the pressure to always perform well. This type of rebellion is usually just a phase that peeters out with time and maturity.
More serious or constant rebellion can be a symptom of ADDADHD or even ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder). This certainly does not mean your child is "crazy" (this word is truly thrown around too much these days) but you'll need to seek the help of a professional to help your teen and your family cope.
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